A TikTok-famous divorce attorney Justin Lee divulged why it’s important for men to fork it over on their first time out with a significant other. “Men should always pay on the first date, and get this, for our own good,” explains Lee. “Your date, whoever that is, may very well be the person you end up marrying. And trust me when I say, as a divorce lawyer, who you end up marrying is so, so important.” Doing so will reveal the true nature of whom you’re across the table from — for better or worse, Lee said. “So let’s say at the end of the date, you pull out your wallet, you offer to pay and your date just sits there, expecting you to pay, as if that is the obvious course of action. In that moment, what did you just learn?” he questions. “You just learned that the person in front of you is entitled and frankly has the audacity to expect a near-stranger to pay for them.”